Ending Procrastination Ending Procrastination- by: Jim Rohn
Perseverance
is about as important to achievement as gasoline is to driving a car.
Sure, there will be times when you feel like you’re spinning your
wheels, but you’ll always get out of the rut with genuine perseverance.
Without it, you won’t even be able to start your engine.
The
opposite of perseverance is procrastination. Perseverance means you
never quit. Procrastination usually means you never get started,
although the inability to finish something is also a form of
procrastination.
Ask people
why they procrastinate and you’ll often hear something like this, I’m a
perfectionist. Everything has to be just right before I can get down to
work.
No distractions, not too much noise, no telephone calls interrupting
me, and of course I have to be feeling well physically, too. I can’t
work when I have a headache.” The other end of procrastination – being
unable to finish – also has a perfectionist explanation: “I’m just never
satisfied. I’m my own harshest critic.
If all the i’s aren’t dotted and all the t’s aren’t crossed, I just
can’t consider that I’m done. That’s just the way I am, and I’ll
probably never change.”
Do
you see what’s going on here? A fault is being turned into a virtue.
The perfectionist is saying that his standards are just too high for
this world. This fault-into-virtue syndrome is a common defense when
people are called upon to discuss their weaknesses, but in the end it’s
just a very pious kind of excuse making. It certainly doesn’t have
anything to do with what’s really behind procrastination.
Remember, the basis of procrastination could be fear of failure.
That’s what perfectionism really is, once you take a hard look at it.
What’s the difference whether you’re afraid of being less than perfect
or afraid of anything else? You’re still paralyzed by fear. What’s the
difference whether you never start or never finish? You’re still stuck.
You’re still going nowhere. You’re still overwhelmed by whatever task is
before you. You´re still allowing yourself to be dominated by a
negative vision of the future in which you see yourself being
criticized, laughed at, punished, or ridden out of town on a rail. Of
course, this negative vision of the future is really a mechanism that
allows you to do nothing. It’s a very convenient mental tool.
I’m
going to tell you how to overcome procrastination. I’m going to show
you how to turn procrastination into perseverance, and if you do what I
suggest, the process will be virtually painless. It involves using two
very powerful principles that foster productivity and perseverance instead of passivity and procrastination.
The first principle is: break it down.
No
matter what you’re trying to accomplish, whether it’s writing a book,
climbing a mountain, or painting a house the key to achievement is your
ability to break down the task into manageable pieces and knock them off
one at one time. Focus on accomplishing what’s right in front of you at
this moment. Ignore what’s off in the distance someplace. Substitute
real-time positive thinking for negative future visualization. That’s
the first all- important technique for bringing an end to
procrastination.
Suppose
I were to ask you if you could write a four hundred-page novel. If
you’re like most people, that would sound like an impossible task. But
suppose I ask you a different question. Suppose I ask if you can write a
page and a quarter a day for one year. Do you think you could do it?
Now the task is starting to seem more manageable. We’re breaking down
the four-hundred-page book into bite-size pieces. Even so, I suspect
many people would still find the prospect intimidating. Do you know why?
Writing a page and a quarter may not seem so bad, but you’re being
asked to look ahead one whole year. When people start to do look that
far ahead, many of them automatically go into a negative mode. So let me
formulate the idea of writing a book in yet another way. Let me break
it down even more.
Suppose
I was to ask you: can you fill up a page and a quarter with words-not
for a year, not for a month, not even for a week, but just today? Don’t
look any further ahead than that. I believe
most people would confidently declare that they could accomplish that.
Of course, these would be the same people who feel totally incapable of
writing a whole book.
If
I said the same thing to those people tomorrow – if I told them, I
don’t want you to look back, and I don’t want you to look ahead, I just
want you to fill up a page and a quarter this very day – do you think
they could do it?
One
day at a time. We’ve all heard that phrase. That’s what we’re doing
here. We’re breaking down the time required for a major task into
one-day segments, and we’re breaking down the work involved in writing a
four hundred-page book into page-and-a-quarter increments.
Keep
this up for one year, and you’ll write the book. Discipline yourself to
look neither forward nor backward, and you can accomplish things you
never thought you could possibly do. And it all begins with those three
words: break it down.
My second technique for defeating procrastination is also only three words long. The three words are: write it down.
We know how important writing is to goal setting. The writing you’ll do for beating procrastination is very similar. Instead of focusing on the future, however, you’re now going to be writing about the present just as you experience it every day. Instead of describing the things you want to do or the places you want to go, you’re going to describe what you actually do with your time, and you’re going to keep a written record of the places you actually go.
We know how important writing is to goal setting. The writing you’ll do for beating procrastination is very similar. Instead of focusing on the future, however, you’re now going to be writing about the present just as you experience it every day. Instead of describing the things you want to do or the places you want to go, you’re going to describe what you actually do with your time, and you’re going to keep a written record of the places you actually go.
In
other words, you’re going to keep a diary of your activities. And
you’re going to be surprised by the distractions, detours, and downright
wastes of time you engage in during the course of a day. All of these
get in the way of achieving your goals. For many people, it’s almost
like they planned it that way, and maybe at some unconscious level they
did. The great thing about keeping a time diary is that it brings all
this out in the open. It forces you to see what you’re actually doing…
and what you’re not doing.
The
time diary doesn’t have to be anything elaborate. Just buy a little
spiral notebook that you can easily carry in your pocket. When you go to
lunch, when you drive across town, when you go to the dry cleaners,
when you spend some time shooting the breeze at the copying machine,
make a quick note of the time you began the activity and the time it
ends. Try to make this notation as soon as possible; if it’s
inconvenient to do it immediately, you can do it later. But you should
make an entry in your time diary at least once every thirty minutes, and
you should keep this up for at least a week.
Break
it down. Write it down. These two techniques are very straightforward.
But don’t let that fool you: these are powerful and effective
productivity techniques that allow you put an end to procrastination and
help you get started to achieving your goals.
To Your Success,Jim Rohn
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